Saturday, January 15, 2011

Updates!!!

Ok, so I turned into what I said I would never be....a blog slacker! It all started back in September, when Steve told me he had to go out of town for work for the week. Well....one week turned into two, which turned into ELEVEN!!!!!! Yes, eleven weeks of being alone Monday thru Friday evening, with a couple of weekends even thrown in the mix! But, I will not complain, and I will be the submissive, loving, and supportive wife....(Yea Right!) But, I did survive single parenthood...(with only one major emotional breakdown!) During this time, I ended up putting in many long hours into my high-paying career, that my blog suffered.
Then, my computer had problems. You see, the boys like to play on it, even though it is sacred to me! I have warned then not to do it, but they keep downloading games. Well, the computer froze up, and Ethan thought it would be a good idea to press CTRL+ALT+DELETE to start the task manager....and it completely crashed my hard drive.....I cried....But never fear, Ethan is still alive today, cause lets get real...it isn't his fault that I haven't backed anything up for the last one and a half years! All my pictures, all my school work,.... poof into cyberspace! Honestly, I thought I was going to go into a major depression! Sooooo thankful for a husband that bought a super warranty when he purchased my computer, and FRY's was able to recover all my data, and give me a brand new hard drive!
Enough Excuses!!!!
So, I have taken today to try and update all of the family happenings through the last three months!
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The Holiday Season, and especially New Years is a time when people make goals. Sadly, I tend not to do that....(who has time for that?), but I make sure to take the time to reflect on the things I am thankful for! Here are some of them, but not a complete list. If I took time to do that, I would be typing for three days or more!

*Health- my family made it though an entire year without any major medical malfunctions! No MRSA, hospitalizations, broken bones, emergency C-Sections, stays in the NICU...or even stitches for that matter! My only trip to my friendly ER was in December when Wyatt decided he liked the taste of Benadryl, and drank the bottle!

*Weight Loss- ok, here is where I get to brag! Back in July, I saw a picture of myself, and decided that I didn't like what I saw! Since there will be no more babies on the way, it was time to loose the weight. After our trip to Utah in August, where all we did was eat...I decided that I was not going to diet, but change my eating habits! And yes, there is a difference. I was inspired to do this by my brother, and I should be eating a certain way anyhow, because of my fybermalgia! So, I basically cut out all processed sugar and MSG. I try to stick to everything fresh and high proteins. I do go to the gym 4 to 5 days a week also. The result, three months later...no pain in my body, and I am now 32 pounds lighter! I have to say that as much as Ethan hates my new eating plan, cause it doesn't include pizza...lol...I love the transformation! The downside...I have also developed a new love of clothing....not very good for the budget. I would still like to drop some more weight, and I am only about 8 pounds from what I was in high school/college, but lets get real...shooting out five babies in eight years takes a toll on the body! If I can loose those 8 pounds great, but I am very happy and proud of where I am now! Now my new focus is toning!

*Religion- Where would I be without guidance from a living prophet? Where would I be without the true gospel in my life? Where would I be without opportunities, such a paying my tithing?...I don't ever want to find out! So thankful for being able to raise my children with the guidance and principles that I am blessed to be a part of!

*Trials- We are faced with them everyday! They sure are not fun when you are experiencing them, and Steve, Me, and the family have had out share these last couple of years. I am thankful for Steve and my new found philosophy...(there is nothing that happens that is bad enough to tear our Eternal Family apart!...We are too important and love each other too much for that to happen!) So, just grin and bear it...and make sure to leave bruises on your knees! One of my favorite artists, Gary Allan, sings a song, and the lyrics say,"Life ain't always beautiful, but it's a beautiful ride!"...Isn't that the truth??? My family bond has grown so much stronger because we face our challenges together, and even though it isn't always fun, we go to sleep happy at the end of the day!

*Family- My parents,who I still turn to for advice, guidance (especially in the form of child rearing), and support, as I try to navigate through my life. My extended family who I will always love and cherish. Those members of my family who have passed away,and the influence and lessons they brought to my life. My husband....his strength and insights amaze me everyday, and he works so hard, supports me in all I do, and whom I can honestly say that I am still in love with when he walks through the door at the end of the day...exhausted and covered in dust and grime...He's so sexy! Finally, five of the most awesome, inspiring, and special blessings of children that I have been given. It takes only one glance at them to remind me of how much my Father in Heaven loves me!

Luckily, I have never been a very private person....cause everyone now knows my innermost thoughts!...lol

Happy New Years!!!

Christmas 2010!

Twas the Night Before Christmas....and after the kids excitedly got to open their pajamas, I ended up with five cuddly kids in my bed with me!!!!!What a special time of year! Spent Family Home Evenings teaching the children about the true meaning of Christmas and giving service to others....and I think all my teaching went out the window at about 7 a.m. on December 25th!!!!!
But, even I have to admit that I get caught up in the excitement of Santa too!

How cute is this little Wild Guy!!!!


Averi was thrilled when Santa brought her Zhu Zhu Pets!


And let me just say that the next time I see Santa, I am going to give him a huge kiss for getting the boys their own laptop!
Even I got everything I wanted! My beloved purse that I wanted so badly, was wrapped nicely under the tree. Since Santa waits til December 23rd to shop for me, I knew there would be no way he would be able to find it! I was also pleasantly surprised to get my favorite Sweet Pea perfume....which Steve replied..."See, I do listen!"





My Double Digit Mister Man!!!!

Ethan turned 10 on December 20th. He wanted to have a party with his friends,and since it has been a couple of years since he has had an actual party, we decided to go ahead and do it!
We came up with a couple of different ideas, like having a sleepover, or going miniature golfing, etc...and then I found what turned out to be the best birthday party idea ever for 10 year old boys!
The Game Store here in town has a party room that turns into an XBOX 360 arcade! Ever child had their own console, with high definition graphics, and they could pick any game they wanted to play!...(as long as the rating wasn't "mature") I know,...sometimes mom's strict rules suck, but the kids still had a blast! Steve had so much fun, that he wanted to go out and buy the XBOX 360 console...(ummmm...sorry honey! but I DON'T THINK SO)

Afterwards, we went for pizza, presents, and cake!
It was such a nice evening, and I love having no cleanup!
Happy Birthday Ethan!







Averi's Kindergarden Program

So fun to go and watch Averi and her class perform a Christmas program. She shocked me a couple of days ahead of time, while I was listening to Christmas music, she started doing sign language to Silent Night. It was touching to watch all 120+ kids singing it all together. However,I think Averi's favorite part was the fact that she got a new outfit so she could look her Christmas best, complete with sparkly shoes!

Thanksgiving 2010

We had our traditional Thanksgiving at my parents house the weekend before the actual holiday,so the whole extended family could come together to celebrate. A full house it was!
The Burton,Johnson, Smith, and Facer Families
Cousin Love

The Smith Family

My Brother Matt and Preslee

More Cousin Love

My Three Nephews

Mom time with Reagen

Averi

Poor Wyatt was so worn out from playing with his cousins that he didn't even make it through dinner!

Daddy and Reagen

We had some great food and great company. I love seeing all of my family on Thanksgiving, and look forward to it every year. It had become my favorite holiday. I look forward to our family tradition of walking the neighborhood after eating so much food! This year it was cold and raining in the morning, but that didn't stop Steve and Brady from playing a round of golf! Steve enjoyed himself so much golfing, that I think that will be a new tradition in the years to come!